Life gets complicated, painful and frustrating. We are not travelling on a straight road with one way traffic. People either go with us, block our vision, drive the other way and have even tried to construct diversions to avoid other people. What if we just went with the flow? What if we imagined we were driving along and all these big problems were just a collection of little flies colliding into our windscreens? All it would have taken to stop the accumulation, would have been a little wipe of the windscreen every now and then.